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Defective Teens NOT!!! Based on The Seven
Habits of Highly Effective Teens" by Sean Covey
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The 7 Habits of Highly Defective Teens

• Habit 1 React.
• Habit 2 Begin with No End in Mind.
• Habit 3 Put First Things Last.
• Habit 4 Think Win-Lose.

• Habit 5 Seek First to Talk, Then Pretend to
  Listen.
• Habit 6 Don't Cooperate
• Habit 7 Wear Yourself Out.

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Defective Teens

• As you can see, the habits listed above are
  recipes for disaster. Yet many of us indulge in
  them...regularly (me included). And, given this,
  it's no wonder that life in this world can really
  stink at times.--Sean Covey

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What are the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens?

• Habit 1 Be Proactive.
• Take responsibility for your life.
• Habit 2 Begin with the End in Mind.
• Define your mission and goals in life.
• Habit 3 Put First Things First.
• Prioritize, and do the most important things
  first.

• Habit 4 Think Win-Win.
• Have an everyone-can-win attitude.
• Habit 5 Seek First to Understand, Then to Be
  Understood.
• Listen to people sincerely.
• Habit 6 Synergize.
• Work together to achieve more.
• Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw.
• Renew yourself regularly.

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Habit 1 Be Proactive

• Listen to your language
• Victimitius virus
• Proactive pays
• Circle of control
• Setbacks to triumphs

reactive
proactive
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Be Proactive

• Rise above
• Change agent
• Proactive muscles
• Can-do
• Push pause
• Tools in action

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Habit 2 Begin With the End In Mind

• Crossroads
• Whos leading?
• Personal mission statement
• Your talents
• Three watch outs
• Labels
• All over syndrome
• Wrong wall

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Begin With the End In Mind

• Go for goal
• Count the cost
• Put it in pen
• Just do it!
• Use momentous moments
• Rope up
• Goals in action
• Weakness to strengths

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Habit 3 Put First Things First

• Pack more into life
• Procrastinator
• Prioritizer
• Yes-man
• Slacker
• Use a planner (agenda!)
• Rocks story

Procrastinator
Prioritizer
Slacker
Yes-Man
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Put First Things First

• Courage zone
• Vrs. Comfort zone
• Fear and decisions
• Rising after falling
• Hard moments
• Peer pressure
• Ingredient of success

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Relationship Bank Account

• Keeping promises
• Small acts of kindness
• Be loyal
• Listen
• Say you are sorry
• Set clear expectations

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Habit 4 Think Win-Win

• Win-lose,
• totem pole
• Lose-win,
• doormat
• Lose-lose,
• downward spiral
• Win-win,
• all you can eat buffet

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Think Win-Win

• Private victory
• Avoid tumor twins
• Competing
• Comparing
• Fruits of win-win spirit

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Habit 5 Seek First to Understand , Then to Be
Understood

• 5 poor listening styles
• Space out
• Pretender
• Selective
• Word
• Self-centered
• Judge
• probe

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Seek First to Understand , Then to Be Understood

• Genuine listening
• Talk with parents

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Habit 6 Synergize

• Synergy is everywhere
• Celebrate differences
• All a minority of one
• Roadblocks
• Stick up for diversity

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Synergize

• Getting into synergy
• Define problem (or better OPPORTUNITY!)
• Their way
• My way
• Brainstorm
• High way
• Teamwork and synergy

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Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw

• Balance is better
• Take time for a time-out

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Sharpen the Saw

• Care for your body
• You are what you eat
• Use it or lose it
• All about how you feel
• Quit whenever you want
• The refusal skill

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Sharpen the Saw

• Care for your brain
• Sharpen your mind
• Find your niche
• School in way of education
• Post high school
• Mental barriers
• You gotta wanna

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Sharpen the Saw

• Care for your heart
• Sex and relationships
• Laugh or youll cry

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Sharpen the Saw

• Care for your soul
• Back to nature
• Teens best friend
• Spiritual diet
• Disturbing my sleep
• Fried frogs
• Get real

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Keep Hope Alive
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Hope

• So be sure when you step
• Step with care and great tact
• And remember that lifes
• A great Balancing Act.
• And will you succeed?
• (98 and ¾ percent guaranteed)
• Kid, youll move mountains
• Dr. Seuss

We've been warned against offering the people of
this nation false hope. But in the unlikely story
that is America, there has never been anything
false about hope President Obama